there is sometime you dont know what to do

you know how you have a chat with friends online who you havent meet for long, there must be something to birng this conversatio up, like some news about some one else you both know.
yep, i was caught up today with my friends in shanghai asking if i know what was going on to a girl who is suppposed to have the wedding yesterday in shanghai.
Opps~ i am in melbourne, and do i look like i know things happened on the other side of the earth? well, i am still glad to hear from her, just feel i am helpless. i mean, what can i do? how could i confort the bride?
anyway, there is the story: she knows him since they were in primary school, and they are kinda alike, i mean the appearance, which i recon it is the reason how they became good friends since then. well, they went to different shcool after that, but still kept in touch and lived in same surbub. i became the girl's friend in the uni, and all four years time we have been studied together, i heard the boy's name from her couple times, and they always appeared to be friend, and just friend. she has her boyfriend, and he was with someone else.
i was oversea after graduation, and become less and less contact with anyone there.
after four years, i met her on msn, and she told me she is going to marry him and the wedding is scheduled on october. okay, my first reaction was "WHAT???" "REALLY??". anyway, i am still feel happy for her cause she sounds like she had found her happiness, and of course i couldnt say to her, have you really consider this is the right thing?? to be honest , i dont know the boy much, i only saw him once on her birthday party , and again that was few years ago, and all i remembered he didnt talk much, very quite and shy person. Then i was very sorry for i can not attend her wedding because i have other things in my own life.
today, here is the news: the wedding was canncelled 3 hours beofre it schedule and everyone just got a message and appearenly noone can get contact with her.
yes, i know, very dramatic, not something should happen in real life. but, and people are start to worry about her, and also want to know what the hell is going on.
finnaly she left on message on Kaixin001, something similar to facebook, saying "fine, dont worry".
well, okay, if she says so, what can we do?? i dont know, i feel sorry for her, but,i dont know what i can do for her, i just dont know.

daylight saving~

At start of daylight saving period, move clock forward one hour at 2 am.

Victoria's period of daylight saving will start at 2:00am on Sunday 4 October 2009

source: http://www.vic.gov.au/about-victoria-tourism/holidays-daylight-savings/daylight-savings/daylight-saving-in-victoria.html

lol~~i havent sat in fornt of TV watching news for ages, somehow i felt like to watch a bit before dinner today, and it just happened that the reminder of daylight saving was given by the end of the news~

well, i really need to konw that since i am actually working tommorrow~luckily!

Mao's Last Dancer

finally, we did our hydro presentation , which also means i will have next friday free from uni~woohoo~~

anyway, the presenation was okay today, then omn the way home, i happened to meet a friend on satation, and she invited me and ting for dinner and movie since i didnt have any plan then.

so we went to one of the korean restaurant, i know, koran again, i just said to reina during day that she is always eat korean, well, it just prove that korean food is popular~

anyway, after the dinner, we headed to village in glen wavely,,,i was so want to get the UP bottle, but as expected as how popular it is, village doesnt have it anymore, shamed!!

back to the movie, Mao's last dancer, well, definitly not me picked that one, its name just sounded so unattractive. but i still agreed to see it.

the moive is actually turns into a big surprise, as it really described the history of china in the view of a young dancer growing into a big star. the details of how the life was in 1980's was so reallisitic, but also make people feel how rediculious was that time.

after the movie finshed, everyone was like'oh, i am so going to read book', 'yeah , it was better than i thought', etc.

the film is mainly in chinese, and i am thinking i should take my grandparents to watch it on sunday, cuase they probally will be able to understand most of it. and it is a good movie too.