Saturday, October 10, 2009

there is sometime you dont know what to do

you know how you have a chat with friends online who you havent meet for long, there must be something to birng this conversatio up, like some news about some one else you both know.
yep, i was caught up today with my friends in shanghai asking if i know what was going on to a girl who is suppposed to have the wedding yesterday in shanghai.
Opps~ i am in melbourne, and do i look like i know things happened on the other side of the earth? well, i am still glad to hear from her, just feel i am helpless. i mean, what can i do? how could i confort the bride?
anyway, there is the story: she knows him since they were in primary school, and they are kinda alike, i mean the appearance, which i recon it is the reason how they became good friends since then. well, they went to different shcool after that, but still kept in touch and lived in same surbub. i became the girl's friend in the uni, and all four years time we have been studied together, i heard the boy's name from her couple times, and they always appeared to be friend, and just friend. she has her boyfriend, and he was with someone else.
i was oversea after graduation, and become less and less contact with anyone there.
after four years, i met her on msn, and she told me she is going to marry him and the wedding is scheduled on october. okay, my first reaction was "WHAT???" "REALLY??". anyway, i am still feel happy for her cause she sounds like she had found her happiness, and of course i couldnt say to her, have you really consider this is the right thing?? to be honest , i dont know the boy much, i only saw him once on her birthday party , and again that was few years ago, and all i remembered he didnt talk much, very quite and shy person. Then i was very sorry for i can not attend her wedding because i have other things in my own life.
today, here is the news: the wedding was canncelled 3 hours beofre it schedule and everyone just got a message and appearenly noone can get contact with her.
yes, i know, very dramatic, not something should happen in real life. but, and people are start to worry about her, and also want to know what the hell is going on.
finnaly she left on message on Kaixin001, something similar to facebook, saying "fine, dont worry".
well, okay, if she says so, what can we do?? i dont know, i feel sorry for her, but,i dont know what i can do for her, i just dont know.

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